I have found a great book that might help explain why as we stress we don't loose weight.
FINALLY found the web page where you can read quite a bit of this book on line. ( will copy and paste this to the thought you should know thread)
Main page for author Dr. Shawn Talbott
Book page:
The Cortisol Connection-Why Stress Makes You Fat and Ruins Your Health and What You Can Do About It
Here is an excerpt
"In a similar manner, upon exposure to everyday stressors the human body ramps up production of cortisol through a complicated series of events that involves both the hypothalamus and the pituitary glands in the brain (more on that later).
One of cortisol's many functions is to stimulate the release of glucose, fats, and amino acids for energy production. In the liver, cortisol stimulates the breakdown of glycogen into glucose. In the adipose tissue (where we store body fat), fatty acids are released in response to cortisol stimulation. (Fat breakdown? Sounds good, but the longer-term effect is fat gain.) In the skeletal muscles, cortisol promotes the release of amino acids, which are either used directly by the muscle for energy or sent to the liver for conversion into glucose. The main problem with this last scenario, however, is that if it continues for any prolonged period of time, a significant amount of muscle mass may be lost (bad for long-term weight maintenance)."





